..wats with the title???..well,its already say itself there..i dont knw where to start,where to put the climax,or where to end..it seems endless to me thinking and keep thinking how to elaborate dis albert einstein thoughts bout love..*as if albert einstein do learn bout love XD*well,wat im trying to say is the word LOVE is hard to be express by me,myself and i..
..i finally realize what a guy really needs in a relationship..mygudnessme..how i am so left behind about dis.. :( ..im nt sure if i shud be listing down what a guy really needs..cz it seems endless to me too thinking what a guy really needs..but i can have a try..lets start.. :)
a)~a guy needs someone near him
in other words,he needs someone he can go directly whenever he have problems,or whenever he need dat person..n yes,he found one n left the 1st one..please tell me whos the jerk in dis situation?aigooo..well,he was still new in relationship when he still with the 1st girl..i guess,he cant really suit himself in dat situation..but y cant he atleast try to be in the situation and be patient???the girl was patiently waiting for him,and thinking bout him evryday..
y cant he try to learn the situation??the girl understand the situation really well n willing to take the risk of being far frm her beloved one..he never thought in mind how the girl really wish to be by his side evry moment of her life..how she wish she could evrything she can when wit him..
y cant he think atleast a bit far from wat he's expecting frm the girl??the girl knw,being far means having a love test frm God..God wanna see how far they can go being together,how strong their love is towards each other..God wanna see how patient enough they are whenever they need each other and the only thing dat can ease dat is by phone calls/text messaging..but do the guy think the way the girl think??..i dont think so...ermm..
..in the end,he left the 1st girl by giving excuses n keep blaming the girl for evrything dat had happen between them..if he's really gonna blame the girl in the end,y not trying to stop the thing frm the 1st place??he even told the girl he loves it etc,but in the end???putting all the blame on the girl without thinking the blame is on him too..y cant he think dat he cant expect the girl to be wit him whenever he needs when they were in the long-distance relationship??if the girl can take the risk of being far frm each other,y not him???y cant he let down his ego for the sake of the girl he love??the girl let down her feelings by being patient with the guy behaviour,y cant the guy have the patient to calm her down whenever she needs him???
i guess,if the girl was rich,she might be going there to be with him whenever he needs her n whenever sha can..or maybe if the girl is already working and have her own money..i bet she will sacrifice all her money jz to be with him..y??cz LOVE IS PRICELESS!!
but wat if the girl was jz a girl next door???living wit her dearest family,still studying,still under parents care..dont tell me u expect her to swim across the sea??she'll die in the middle of the sea..how tragic is dat gonna be..n there u go,crying..telling the whole world how u regret dat..too late darling..will u be responsible for dat??..how i wish the guy can really think a bit mature frm wat he actually are thinking..
b)~a guy need someone dat will look after him
..dis fact killing me..tell me,after u expect ur mother to buy all those things for ur own,now u expect the girl to be like u mother??wow..loving ur thought dude!!..yes,i knw the guy will think,
"i need someone who can be the mother to my kids,i wanna see it frm the way she's gonna treat me.."..dude,chill out..take it slowly okayy..lets see how the situations goes..its gonna be the same situations as the 1st one,long-distance relationship..1st,lets compare a mother and ur girl..ur mother has her own money,dats y she can buy u evrything..ur girl do have her own money,but frm the parents..lets cnsider,she's still under her parents care..dont tell me u expect the girl to ask her parents to buy her flights ticket to go see u,n give u food..like seriously???..well,dat could be happening if the girl was a spoil brat..or maybe by saving all her money and starve for a month jz to buy the flight ticket..mygudnessme..can u imagine..the girl texting the guy evry minute jz to knw how he's doing,is he ok?is he sick?do he hv his lunch??but for the guy,it was so damn annoying..wow!!cant the guy think dat it was the way the girl can look after him frm a far??cant the guy think dat the girl do care about the guy??cant the guy think dat how the girl wish to be by his side when he's sick,to help him with the medicine and all???..watever the girl do,she'll text the guy so dat he'll not be worry as much as she could be worry towards the guy,cz she knw how bad the feeling is to be worry..cant the guy understand dat all of these are sacrifices frm the girl towards the guy she loves so much??y cant the guy act the same towards the girl??all the girl get was a total BS frm the guy..aigoo..pity larr the girl dude..let down ur ego for a while,u wouldnt die because of it..right???
c)~a guy is looking for a wife instead of a gf..
..another killer facts..tell me,the guy expecting the girl to do his laundry?the guy expect the girl to make his breakfast,lunch and dinner?the guy expect the girl to stay at home 24/7 jz to video call with him?..wow wow and another wow..u both are not even marry,n the guy expect dat much???if the guy was expecting dat much frm a girl,y cant he jz ask the girl for her commitment in life towards him?mygudnessme..same situations,long-distance relationship..wat can u expect from a girl,when the girl is someone else's daughter??oh hello???do i even need to elaborate dis??!!!
wat can u expect frm a girl when the girl has her pride to stay with her family until a guy come and propose her??another hello??if the guy hv their ego,the girl shud hv her pride okaayyy..
wat can u expect frm the girl when wat she actually needed is a guy who can eventually become he husband??need another hello??well,wat im trying to say here is dat,instead the guy is looking for a wife in the girl,y not trying to see the potential dat the girl have to be a good wife???y the guy cant try to see himself in the future as the husband of the girl??another hello,if the guy is looking for a wife,wat do u expect the girl to look for in a guy??a jerk???
..try to accept the flaws n mistakes in the girl,as the girl already do accept the guy flaws n mistakes..cz she knw dat NOBODY'S PERFECT IN THIS WOLRD..tell me if u can actually walk on water??i dont think so,unless u have something below the water to enable u to walk on it..
lets make a conclusion here..
..dont expect too much frm each other..try to learn each other even after u're both are together..try to think the way each other think..always put urself on others shoes first before u..y do i say so???so dat u knw how the other person feel..
..dont expect everyone to be perfect for u..even urself not perfect..u make mistakes,so do others..u have sins,so do the others..u felt dat u're didnt look good enough,tell me how would those handicapped people felt when they see normal people??..u hv feelings,so do the others..even the animals have feelings..u experienced something bad,the others experienced it too..u've been hurt,so the others..u're not the only human in dis world,bear dat in mind..
..the differences u make between all these people is the way u face all of this hardship in life..
..the differences u make in the way u settle things up..
..some people cant even handle a break up,end up jumping off frm a building and die..some people cant handle depressions,stress,end up cutting their wrist off and die..some people cant handle criticism,end up hanging up themselves in their house and die..cant u be thankful enough to still have the rational thoughts in life???..
..finally,dont expect things to be perfect the way u want it,u knw humans only plans,God decide's on it..try working out things wit ur partner nicely,sure there's a way dat God had for u both..if its still not working,try sort out few things between u both..be honest with each other,tell each others dissatisfaction..tell each other how u feel when being treated in certain2 way.. even though u both face a lot of ups and downs,if u both still loyal towards each other,u both still gonna work out..when there's a will,there's a way..remember dat..have some time for each other to be in a place dat only u both are in,in this way u both can totally say evrything u hv in mind..
p.s
this is a jz random thoughts of me towards couple,a girl and a guy..no offence towards the living and the dead,if there is,its jz a coincidence..
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